Here we go again...
It's interesting to me that there is so much "fear" of driving diesels. The DPF and DEF arguments all seem to be folklore stories with no evidence. You certainly make some good points about modern emissions, but the DPF and DEF systems are seldom a failure factor for the diesels based on the number of these engines out there. Even the fuel pump stories are prevalent in media talk, but again, no evidence that they fail prematurely, any more than any other vehicle engine based on ratios. Proper maintenance is key.
If I was to ever see a truck on the side of the road, diesel, dead because the DPF failed or caused a failure, or fuel pump disintegrated, that would be evidence. In 60 years of driving, it's mostly gasoline engines I see on the side of the road, sometimes in flames, seldom diesels. But look at the ratios... Per capita, there are far more gasoline engines than diesels so I would expect to see this ratio. It's not to say diesels can't fail nor is it that gasoline engines are prone to failure, it's to say that the ratio is probably the same. Diesels are no different than gasoline engine failure rates.
Oh, and by the way, when I see a big rig on the side of the road, in flames, it's usually brake failure not engine failure.
Fear mongering is unnecessary in either case. Both the 6.7 and the 7.3 are fantastic works of engineering. One's personal choice for one or the other is exactly that, it's a personal choice for your needs or wants. Enjoy your choice. Just know, everything mechanical will eventually die. It's physics.